I'm Scared!

[:: LaLa ::]

Well a little less than a week ago my guy friend and i had sex, ok we had unprotected sex but he pulled out. i had my period like a little less than 2 weeks ago, but just today i had what looked like a period but it wasnt alot, and it was only for like today. and now it stoped. what if im pregnant... how do i know if i am right now. or do u have to wait awhile to see??.. help me out people im only 15!

[NaughtyGyrl]

wait... did you have your period two weeks ago and it was extremely light or did you have your period two weeks ago and now again your "spotting"???

In either case I would get a pregnancy test or go to a clinic and have a test done. If its the first scenerio, then you might be pregnant, but the second scenerio might be that your pregnant but your body isn't allowing the pregnancy so your "spotting" or "miscarrying" the egg.

Regardless go get a test done pronto.

[Rog]

what if im pregnant...

Then you're fucked.

Times like these are not fun at all.

Get a test done.

[5150girl]

like they said - get a test ASAP - they are very accurate even at this early date. Secondly, why are you having sex without protection, plesae for protect yourself from STD's and pregancy in the future.

[Guardisi/Beware]

First and foremost sweetheart from here on out you should take this scare as a lesson learned. The other memeber that commented about spotting may be on to something. It very well could be that you are spotting, it isn't uncommon at your age because of the level of hormones in your body at this point of your growth and development (even older women can spot) Your stress may also be causing you to spot as well. However, you should still get a pregnancy test done. If you are worried about anyone finding out, or you dont have the money for a test you can look up phone numbers for health units in your city that cater to teens. They perform pregnancy tests at no costs and everything is kept confidential. Also, for future reference the "pull out" method is NO SUBSTITUE for birth control or std protection. It seems as though you made an uneducated choice about having sex in the first place. There are stds you can catch even with a condom so the simple fact you had sex without a condom is very irresponsible. I am not trying to lecture you I am just concerned that at the age of 15 you would participate in sex without the proper precautions for yourself.

Another thing you could have done the day after you had sex was go to your doctor or a health unit/clinic for teens or a walk in clinic and requested the morning after pill which is called PLAN B by physicians. This pill is taken 24 hours after a sexual encounter if you suspect the condom broke or you had unprotected sex. This pill prevents pregnancy and is only accurate the day after the sexual encounter. Now I am not promoting this as to say go have unprotected sex as much as you want because this is an option,,,,,,however if you honestly have a scare and you arent sure it is an option out there. From now on be smart and safe. Obviously you are sexually active so I cant tell you not to be so if you insist on having sex at such a young age with the risk of pregnancy and stds please use protection. One time could change your life forever........Good luck with everything ( go get a test and I suggest a pap test and ask to have cultures taken to test for stds since you had unprotected sex) Take care

[Thug Prophecy]

I think we did take care of all the medical information above. The real question is, at 15 why are you having sex, especially unprotected. Can you honestly give me five good reasons why you are having sex?

[mrMarcus]

ok we had unprotected sex but he pulled out.

LMAO...why do i keep hearing this lately? you can still get pregnant very easily, even if buddy "pulls out". but whatever...people gotta learn the hard way.

[*~Angel~*]

Like everyone else, Id get the test done. Better safe than sorry...pulling out is not going to keep you from getting pregnant. and at 15, why are you having sex, let alone unprotected sex, both dangerous.

[DaytonaSky]

This is how all the young dumb teens are getting pregnant.

[ll renegade ll]

you shouldnt have been a whore

[*~Angel~*]

maybe a few of them should learn..

[nitetrain8603]

well my first advice would not come to a message board for advice, especially when it's about beyin pregnant when you havent had a test done yet....secondly, use a fuckin condom...if your goin to have sex make sure you have a rubber....jus assumin the guy pullin out is enough isnt smart

[Ivan Drago]

I don't care what anybody says. Pulling out works.

[SpeedRunnerx]

Are condoms really that hard to buy??

[Thug Prophecy]

Are condoms really that hard to buy??

You don't even have to buy them, so places give them out free.