Maybe ya'll ladies can help me out...

[Delinquent Faith]

I know some dude gonna rip on me for this.

Maybe it's cause I live in Montreal and it's a fairly big city that moves at a fast pace? Or maybe it's because I haven't looked hard enough, but why is it every girl is out to fuck with your head?

See, when it comes to the female persuasion I get into this Don Juan state of like, I get extremley romantic. The expression on a girls face as she lights up and blushes when I write poetry for her is fulfilling to me on a big level. I'm pretty different around women whereso I'll let go and be a lot more carefree and light hearted compared to when I'm with my boys.

I mean, I'm known as that "nice guy". So I suppose you can see where this is going. I mean do women WANT me to treat them like shit and for me to treat them like they're beneath me? I remember this one girl I tried getting with rejected me and told me "I'm too nice". Then she went with this dude who beats her and shit is still with him... So me, I'm sitting back just like... WTF? 2#:-(

Now also I find most all girls I know are slutty as fuck, and I don't want a slutty girlfriend. I mean I like it when a girl shows skin you know, but when you're telling me how many guys you've fucked and how some were thrice your god damn age I don't know how this is expected to be a sort of turn on for me or incentive for me to want a date you when your mouth's been on more cocks than forks at a dinner table? Really now.

Maybe I'm just surrounded by the wrong type of people, I don't know. I'm kind of confused now cause most girls really don't know what the hell they want as far as I can tell.

So what is it ladies? Help me out here!

I now understand the term "nice guys finish last."

[Starie88]

just hang in there you'll find someone.

[omar a]

I experienced something like this. And its not like i was nice. The other guy was sooo rude and treated her like shit and than like 2 nights ago she tells me that she likes him, like WTF?

Meh fuck em.

[Kali]

It's probably something to do with the girls you are dating, and the way they were brought up. Like, if their father was absent, they will probably want a man who is there all the time. And if they were abused, they will look for a man who abuses them... It could just be you and your choices.

Anyway, keep looking. You'll eventually find the one for you. But, if all else fails,

Come to Seattle and date me, Harry!!!

[EmpressMaria]

Maybe I'm just surrounded by the wrong type of people, I don't know.

I think that's it. But.. don't lose your hope, NOT all the girls are like that! (arguingsm Bahah.
Some girls just need to grow the fuck up, and have some self respect when it comes to bf's that treat them like shit. Who the hell really wants that..

[DaDides]

dude i think writin them poems is a bit 2 far, they think ur obsessed and dont wanna be with u

[bLuEsHiFt]

I have the same problem. I want a lady in the street and a freak in the bed. :D

[Delinquent Faith]

dude i think writin them poems is a bit 2 far, they think ur obsessed and dont wanna be with u

Dude you got me wrong. You think I write poetry for random girls and walk up to'em to recite it? lmao naw man. You misunderstood.

I have the same problem. I want a lady in the street and a freak in the bed. :D

you mean a lady in the street an a freak in the SHEETS? Yes. lol

[LovelyBones]

I understand that some girls don't want a guy that is too emotional and sensitive. 'Cause trust me, I don't want a guy that cries like a bitch more than i do and is wayyyyy too much of a softy. But, it doesn't mean i'm going to search for a guy that will beat the shit outta me. I think you're just going for the wrong girls. Bless your heart for being a real nice guy, im sure you know how to make a girl happy, and don't change that, it's just that a lot of girls really are confused on what the fuck they want

[Chatalean]

You need a classy girl that has self esteem and will appreciate you. The girl that left you for a guy that beats her must have a victim mentality and I doubt she would have made you happy in the long run. You are better off without her. Don't change for anyone. You will find a girl that loves you for who you are. Change the places you hang out. Try something new, maybe take a writing class since you enjoy writing poetry. It might help you meet different types of girls than the ones you have been meeting.

[Leonie]

^ oh oh..i hope i dont have a 'victim' mentality.. i usually go ( more i went ) for guys that were the complete opposite of me and i'm a NICE girl :/

[Kali]

dude i think writin them poems is a bit 2 far, they think ur obsessed and dont wanna be with u

I think most girls like it when guys write poetry for them.

[jessejames]

be a fucking asshole man lol,,mtl hoes are pure sluts. you gotta abuse em,,they love it lol,,,its true

[dirtydozen122]

It’s sweet that you're nice, and write poetry. Don't stop that just because some girls are warped. Plenty of people are looking for nice guys, so don’t think you have to act badass for a girl to like you. I’m sure you’ll meet someone soon, so don’t give up hope!

[TheMan]

'nice guys' generally don't make women feel secure, challenged, or have fun.

good luck on finding on with her head on straight, that usually doesn't happen until they get a bit older and only then if that other behavior didn't work.