Maybe ya'll ladies can help me out...

[Cryptic]

nice guys come off as desperate fucks who are hiding their feelings... on the other hand if you just speak your mind and act like you normally would without giving a flying fuck what she might think of you, ill bet you that you'll get laid that same day u met her

[Carmen Sandiego]

I now understand the term "nice guys finish last."

Good. Now use that knowledge to your advantage and stop being a fucking a pussy. There are ways to be nice without coming across as desperate or as a complete wimp.

[Carmen Sandiego]

Come to Seattle and date me, Harry!!!

If anybody came to Seattle it would be to kill you, you fugly bitch.

[AUDIOSLAVE71]

"I have the same problem. I want a lady in the street and a freak in the bed. :D"

Well do you have a problem with banging your mom?

[Joker Boy]

I have the same problem. I want a lady in the street and a freak in the bed. :D

That is the best fucking thing in the world for guys. I'm so glad I have one, and she's so fucking loyal, god I love her lol.

[Delinquent Faith]

Yes. A King needs a Queen. ::

[Kali]

Lmao. You want a 'queen'? You're starting to sound like David and Boner...

[Delinquent Faith]

Thanks for the advice.

An yeah, I'll never be like... Sissy nice, but I mean. I'm a King and I want a Queen, feel me?

But yeah again thanks for some of the advice, preciate it all.

[Sk1ppa9035]

yeah dude its ok to be nice but be pushy at the sametime..use the push-pull technique..its like u almost want to act like u dont need her..that'll get her interest more..all girls want what they cant have....and almost every girl loves a challenge ...sooo just act like u care but als act like u could care less if u dont get with her..because that'll bug her and make her want you more...save that poetry stuff till later...once u got hooked on u then strt dishin out the romantic shiat..but never over do it because being smothered intimidates a girl....

[Chrizz]

I now understand the term "nice guys finish last."

It couldn't be any more true, you gotta take up the "treat her like a prostitute" attitude courtesy of our man Slick Rick

Just remember that you're the boss, never let her in charge. Don't write all that sappy poetry shit, they'll blush because they're embarassed probably. Just remember who wears the trousers in the relationship; obvisuoly you can still be "nice", but too much nice is not good.

[nitetrain8603]

Depends on your age. I mean if you're still in high school, most girls don't want the nice guys unfortunately. They want someone who they think will grow up to be a wifebeater for some odd reason. You have to wait until they get a bit older and that's when they'll appreciate you alot man.

[Leonie]

hihihi..i dont know, but i'd feel weird if he read a poem.. if front of me.. i dont know. And yes as someone said .. nice guys usually dont make me feel PROTECTED and secure.

[EmpressMaria]

I think most girls like it when guys write poetry for them.

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[TheMan]

'nice guys' generally don't make women feel secure, challenged, or have fun.

good luck on finding on with her head on straight, that usually doesn't happen until they get a bit older and only then if that other behavior didn't work.

[dirtydozen122]

It’s sweet that you're nice, and write poetry. Don't stop that just because some girls are warped. Plenty of people are looking for nice guys, so don’t think you have to act badass for a girl to like you. I’m sure you’ll meet someone soon, so don’t give up hope!