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    Guys, I think I'm in love again, but the girl has a boyfriend. I have a long history with this girl and she once told me that she'd secretly loved me for years. Since I'm such a great guy to my bros, I didn't get with her at the time because my friend was getting into her (he never closed though), and believe me, she's HOT. She's been going with this new guy for about 6 months. On New Year's Eve, I had a long talk with her sister (I'm pretty close with her sisters) and at one point her sister said, "she loves you, you know".

    Wtf do I do, mates? Wait it out? I don't think I'm about to profess my feelings for her while she's still with her boyfriend, but how do you think I should approach it? Tell her while she is still with her boyfriend? Wait it out and then tell her? Wait it out and build up a rapport then smack her across the face with it (my feelings)? Dying to hear some thoughts, especially from Bunble B seeing as how I gave her some excellent advice regarding her new-found lesbian relationship.





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  • #2
    be proactive fuck waiting around that won't get you anywhere except backwards.
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    • #3
      I only read the first sentence, but my first thought is just eliminate her boyfriend.
      I'm known to have a hottie open, I keep the shottie smokin
      Front and get half the bones in your body broken

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      • #4
        By eliminate you mean kill?

        I'm not rejecting this as an option, but I don't really know the guy and therefore killing him seems harsh.





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        • #5
          When u talk to her start planting seeds of doubt in her mind about her boyfriend...but don't be too overt or she might pick up on ur master plan. Insinuate that he aint shit. Bring up old memories n jokes between u two...that'll show you've always been intrigued and attentive with her... dont tell her straight up u love her but show ur appreciation for her on the subtle tip. If all goes well within due time she'll no longer be with other fella and you'll swoop in for the kill

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          • #6
            ^ Now that's what I'm talking about.

            Pic of girl in question.






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            • #7
              fit bird mate, shit.

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              • #8
                Damn, yes, definitely "eliminate" her boyfriend.
                I'm known to have a hottie open, I keep the shottie smokin
                Front and get half the bones in your body broken

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                • #9
                  I'm liking your advice so far, guys, but I'd love to hear a women's thoughts on the subject. I've always been a huge advocate of never hitting on a women in a relationship so I'd essentially be going against everything I stand for. She is extremely hot though so the two do kind of cancel each other out. I'm at a crossroads.





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                  • #10
                    ABSOLUTELY tell her, fuck her boyfriend. This worked for me, it can work for you. Do not wait. You will regret it forever if you do. Tell her tonight.
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                    • #11
                      Have you just recently discovered feelings or has it only been thoughts of lust?

                      Her being unavailable.. does it make you want her more?

                      Next time you talk to her, say somn like "should have asked you out sooner."

                      It will open the topic up for conversation and allow you to gauge her feelings.
                      "Deep into that darkness peering, long I stood there, wondering, fearing, doubting, dreaming dreams no mortal ever dared to dream before." - Poe

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                      • #12
                        Have you talked to her about the BAD things in her relationship? Just do what he doesn't do for her. I'm sure she wants to upgrade not downgrade.
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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Luis T.I. View Post
                          ABSOLUTELY tell her, fuck her boyfriend. This worked for me, it can work for you. Do not wait. You will regret it forever if you do. Tell her tonight.
                          Right?! And if I know this girl right she would love that. But there are other obstacles such as the fact that her best friend really likes me, so she'd also have to see past that. The only reason I'm kinda hesitant is that I've not had much contact with her over the past few months with her obviously spending time with her boyfriend and having to finish her dissertation. For all I know, the sister's drunken words could mean nothing. I know she at least has some feelings towards me but I don't know how she feels about this new guy. This is why I'm thinking it might be best to see her a couple of times first to build that rapport back up, but I don't wanna come across as just a friend so it's a real juggling act.





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                          • #14
                            Take her out to dinner, see how it goes, feel out the vibes, react accordingly. If shit is right - call her that same night and tell her. Or better yet, drive to her place and tell her.

                            With my scenario, I was in a different state at the time I realized I wanted to be with her and wouldn't be back to where she was for a month, but she was in a 2 year relationship - and I knew her well enough that I knew if I didn't put in my 2 cents she would end up marrying the guy. I sent her a hand-written letter and she dumped the guy within a month.
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                            • #15
                              Dude never listen to a girls advice on women, they ALWAYS lead you in the wrong direction. Dude, ask yourself this. What in the FUCK does HER boyfriend have to do with YOU? That's her problem bro. She's fine as fuck, hit that my man, come back and post how long you lasted just like squidge did after his first time
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