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    Ok so I like got into an argument with a mother a while back, and she sent me to live with my dad, his bitchy wife, and my younger brother(16). Ok my brother has ALWAYS been the odd ball of the family:

    1. He's a virgin and PROUD
    2. He loves punk rock
    3. He watches Lifetime ALL DAY
    4. He dresses nerdy(tie, tucked shirt, ect)

    Most family members just drop out of school, and live off the government for the rest of thier lives. I guess he's a weirdo for being one of the smartest people in our family. He currenty has a 3.7 GPA, and is in some academy that's about 45min away from our house.

    Anyways, it disturbs me when friends pull me to the side and ask if my brother is gay. After living with him for a few months I found out that he was Bi.

    Ok so day I was getting on Myspace to check my mail. When I went on the site, my brother's home page came up. He was still logged in. I know it was lame to do, but I decided to check his mail. I read about 3 disturbing messages. You know how you can read older messages under the new ones? Well one of the messages was about my brother asking some guy out, and the guy kinda shot him down by saying "Do you always ask complete strangers out over the internet?" A message from a different guy was just a reply to my brother's threat about how he'd fight him if he tell anyone that he's "Bi". Yep, he said "Bi". After that, I just logged him out. It was pretty official to me that he liked guys.

    I doesn't even bother me that he's gay. What bothers me is the pressure that people put on me for ALLOWING him to be gay. It also bothers me that my brother hides it when almost every family member knows at this point thx to me.

    Ok first:

    He's my brother, and nothing's gonna change that whether he likes boys or not. I don't see the big deal about it. People are always pushing me to beat him out of it. The person I told was my dad. His response was a "discussion". Didn't solve shit.

    I kinda overlooked all the pressure, and decided to just tell everyone to the point that he had NOTHING to hide. Well till this day he hides this shit, and it's pissing me off. I just want him to be himself, only because it's so obvious that he's homo. NO ONE should fucking pull me to the side and ask me if he's gay 5mins after they met him. It's that obvious indeed.
    How can they tell?

    Well:

    1. He has a girly walk
    2. He has that faggy accent
    3. He NEVER talks about girls


    Ex: Like one day a few cousins of mine had some hoes over. Everyone including my 12 year old bro(lost his v card that night), fucked these girls EXCEPT the homo one I'm talking about now. What was he doing you ask? He was on the phone with a guy.

    Not to mention those times I'd just walk in his room and see him mimi-mize the window as fast as he could. I always thought porn...but it was mysp...het wait that brings me to my next point lmao. I found some gay porn in our limewire library one day. That was the icing on the cake man.
    Anyways, sorry for all the details. What I really want to know is what would you do if you were in my shoes? Am I doing the right thing by letting the whole thing blow over?
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    King $hit^^


    Originally posted by grizzyp
    bootlegging is gods gift to us poor people sick of buying shitty cds

  • #2
    wat a fag
    LastFM

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    • #3
      First of all, I don't quite understand what's upsetting you. Are you homophobic, or are you just sick of homophobic people wanting to know if he's gay? If I were in your position and somebody asked me if he was gay, I would just say, "why don't you ask him?" Also, if they tried to bash him or some shit I would defend him, 'cause it's fucking ignorant to gay bash.

      Secondly, what's wrong with being a virgin and proud? It's much more honorable to be a virgin than a fucking nasty whore who will fuck anything. I, personally, would much rather wait for somebody who I love or at least admire.
      "Don’t imagine a tragic end to the book when there’s not,
      You gotta try to rewrite in spite of how crooked the plot."

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      • #4
        okay so ur brothers gay he will come out and tell everyone when hes ready and comfortable dont try to push him to do so i dont understand why ur putting all this Bussiness in the Street and then makeing a huge deal about it sweetheart Him Talking to Random Ppl On the Net Isnt safe but if thats his comfort Zone then let him Be. If ur Worried about him let him know but not in a mean way.
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        • #5
          The way you deal with this case is positive I'd say you just leave
          when to come out of the closet to him, I believe something like that would be a pretty huge step even though everyone knows it unofficialy And fuck the people who tell you to beat it out of him, ignorant idiots:s If I were gay(no homo) I wouldn't mind my brother reacting like you do(no homo)
          I'mma put my dick in your ear, and FUCK what you heard!

          She's always there for me, when times are bad, but whenever she's around, times are bad!

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Kid Ka$h View Post
            Everyone including my 12 year old bro(lost his v card that night), fucked these girls EXCEPT the homo one I'm talking about now.
            Baaaallin'

            Originally posted by aKtIvItY
            wat a fag
            lmao





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            • #7
              I think you should just leave it to your brother to decide when he wants to tell people, and you can then be supportive!

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              • #8
                fuck him

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                • #9
                  ^ Or ostracise him. Fuck faggots.

                  EDIT: To vicksy.





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                  • #10
                    Yea I was planning on letting it blow over until he decides to come out.

                    As for the Virgin thing, it's just embarassing that's all. He'd like leave the room when we're talking about girls and stuff. I just hate to see him give up on girls without even TRYING them out ya know?
                    http://img212.imageshack.us/img212/3100/spshitll0.png
                    King $hit^^


                    Originally posted by grizzyp
                    bootlegging is gods gift to us poor people sick of buying shitty cds

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                    • #11
                      that sux

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by aKtIvItY View Post
                        wat a fag
                        2:-|2

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Kid Ka$h View Post
                          Yea I was planning on letting it blow over until he decides to come out.
                          As for the Virgin thing, it's just embarassing that's all. He'd like leave the room when we're talking about girls and stuff. I just hate to see him give up on girls without even TRYING them out ya know?
                          you gave up on males without giving them a try, retard...

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                          • #14
                            Who cares? It's your brothers business and if he wants to come out and tell everyone, he will when he is good and ready. Regardless of who knows and if it is obvious at this point or not.

                            Besides, It's not your place to go off telling the world or to force it out of him.

                            Atleast you care about your brother, even if at the same time, you judge him while saying you aren't. You seem more frustrated by people asking you about him though, rather then about whether or not he's being himself, which from what you say, he's still doing without having to run around going "I'm a bisexual"
                            Now let the night be dark for all of me.
                            Let the night be too dark for me to see
                            Into the future. Let what will be, be.'

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                            • #15
                              i would protect my anus with stickytape if i was u

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